I’ve just completed a hand analysis class about Heart Lines, Communication Styles, and Trust.
I have a special offer for you to learn more about your heart in your hands.
But before I do that, I want to tell you a story so you have some idea why it matters.
Ben and his wife, Tess, were having trouble with their marriage. Tess has Passionate Heart Lines. She is easily in touch with what she feels and what she wants, and expressing both is the most natural thing in the world. It seemed to Tess like every time she sat down to talk with Ben, she would pour out her heart, tell him how frustrated she was with the lack of communication between them, tell him that she wanted things to be better—in fact what she most wanted was to know how he felt and what he wanted. Then he would hem and haw, and she would eventually fly off the handle because he just wouldn’t tell her! When he did say something, it was so general and meandering, it felt like was blowing her off.
Ben has Romantic Idealist Heart Lines. This heart line style is very tuned in to the needs of others, hates upsetting or hurting anyone, in fact takes a lot of time and care to say things in ways that avoid that possibility. Expressing feelings comes hard for the Romantic Idealist. Knowing what he feels and what he wants is a real challenge. He needs lots of time and space to talk through his feelings—and won’t actually know what his true deep feelings and desires are unless he gets this space and encouragement to talk it through. Ben felt that Tess was asking for something he didn’t know the answer to. He couldn’t say what he wanted because he didn’t know, and because she was either doing all the talking, or getting mad at him for not talking. He didn’t want to just tell her he hated to even talk anymore because she was so impatient with him. The last thing he wanted to do was to make her more unhappy. But it wasn’t working.
When Ben and Tess learned their heart lines are polar opposites, they were able to make adjustments. Now Tess asks Ben what he is feeling, and she waits. She doesn’t say anything. It’s not easy for her, but she is learning to “zip her lip” and wait. When he finishes, she asks “Is there more?” The pay-off in increased intimacy has been wonderful.
Ben has learned he needs to speak more bluntly than is comfortable for him. He gets to the point, once he knows what it is. Now he has time and space in their conversations to work out how he feels and what he wants. These changes have saved their communication, and really, their marriage.
Hermit and Big Heart Heart Lines are opposites as well; and have their own typical pattern. Big Heart spends all her time doing for others, giving to others, eventually reaching a point of resentment. Hermit likes being done for, but in the process, he feels controlled. It isn’t that he isn’t happy to pitch in, he just can’t stand her insisting he do it her way. He needs freedom above all else. (Pronouns picked randomly—Heart Lines are not gender based.)
Maybe you recognized yourself in Ben or Tess, or Hermit or Big Heart.
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Your happiness is at stake through your communication style—you can see how important it is to know what it is, what it requires of you, and what you need to ask for from others..
Many of you have already received Life Purpose Hand Analysis from me, and I already have your prints.
For you, I’m offering a 50 minute Heart Line Reading for just $50.
If you’ve never given me hand prints, I’ll add $15 for print kit costs.
Please note: you don’t need to be geographically close to take advantage of this offer. I can mail a print kit, and I’ll deliver the reading over the telephone.
After you purchase your reading, send me an e-mail: lindy@lindymaclaine.com and we’ll get your reading scheduled at a mutually convenient time.